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Jennifer Tonks nee Smith

By Jennifer Tonks nee Smith

Born in Brighton General

I was born at Brighton General 1948. My family was living in Ewert Street at that time. We moved to 48 Walmer Crescent (a brand new house) Lower Bevendean when I was three in 1951. My dad was a nurse at Brighton General Hospital.

Photo:Me with my brother and our dog Bimbo

Me with my brother and our dog Bimbo

From the private collection of Jennifer Tonks


Childhood in Bevendean

I went to Lower Bevendean Infants School; I believe the headmistress at that time was Miss Cross. As I stood in the playground I could look down into the farm. I have a memory of seeing a lady feeding the chickens. My childhood was carefree at Lower Bevendean; we happily roamed the fields with our dog Bimbo. We eventually moved from Lower Bevendean as my mother found it too isolated, to Clayton Road.

Photo:My granddad, Big Bill Taylor

My granddad, Big Bill Taylor

From the private collection of Jennifer Tonks


Memories of my granddad

At the age five or six, I had some kind of breakdown as my granddad, Big Bill Taylor, a fisherman had died. I have wonderful memories of him. I remember him cutting the clothes line down at his home in Holland Street, for my sisters and me to use the rope to skip. I also remember he had a tin box, I think it was an old Elastoplast tin, full of Dolly Mixture sweets that he would share amongst us.

Floral tribute

Another memory I have is of going to Milner flats to an aunt, and collecting a very large flower arrangement of a boat, as he had been a fisherman, for granddad’s funeral. I also remember going with my mum to see my granddad when he was laid out in the funeral parlour in Lewes Road. That memory is very vivid; I think my mum took me along because she didn’t think I was aware of what had happened, but clearly I was.

Photo:Me aged about 9 years old

Me aged about 9 years old

From the private collection of Jennifer Tonks

After school

After leaving Lower Bevendean Infants School I attended Fairlight School Juniors and then to Fairlight Senior Girls, before it merged with Elm Grove School in the sixties. In 1966 I contracted glandular fever, and spent some in the Foredown Isolation Hospital. When I left school I worked at Western Road Woolworth’s store, British Home Stores, and then finally settled at Paragons Photographic in West Street.

A full and happy life

In 1971 I married Michael Tonks from Leybourne Road and we had two children, Paul and Caroline. Sadly my husband died unexpectedly in January 2004. But I have had a full and happy life. I still have contact with friends from the old days, and we meet for lunch every so often. If you can remember me, or my family, please do leave a comment below.

This page was added on 01/06/2011.
Comments about this page

Hello. I am a project leader of a lottery funded history project based in Tarner, Brighton where Milner Flats are. We are looking for people with memories of the area for a History Book and a Website. I would love to chat to you. Please email me if interested. Best Wishes Chloe Howley and also you can speak to Jess Huffman [Chloe - your email address will not appear in this text. If you would like people to contact you, please give us permission to publish your details. Comments Ed]

By chloe Howley (11/06/2011)

My grandad Frederick and his parents William and Lucy lived in Holland St. in 1901, I bet they knew your grandad, they lived at 35. My dad Frederick (Ted) also had an aunt and uncle that lived in Milner Flats. Small world isn't it?

By Anne Newman (27/06/2011)

Hello, You may remember my mum, (Jean Harman) or my auntie Linda Harman. Also my uncle George Hefferan lived in the Kingswood flats for many years but sadly passed away a few years ago. His wife was called Clara. I remember visiting them when I was a child.

By Mandy Harvey (12/04/2012)

Jennifer Tonks nee Smith; possible daughter-in-law to Ted Tonks, Lower Bevendean. I was apprenticed to WH Fellinghams working with Ted who taught me all he knew as an electrician. His war-time yarns, RAF in India, helping short male dogs with bricks and language of love were an education. I am indebted to Ted, the mentor I badly needed as a teenager. Rest in peace Ted. Daphne has not forgotten you.

By Raymond 'Daphne' (ex-Varndean) Thatcher (14/03/2015)

Hello Raymond "Daphne" Thatcher. Sorry for late reply. I am indeed Ted's daughter in law, I married his son Michael. Sadly Michael died in 2004. I knew Ted before I knew his son. I got off the same bus as him at the Steine and walked up to work with him. There was a man with him, possibly you? A very nice man who sadly passed before I married his son. Thank you for remembering him so fondly.

By Jennifer Tonks (12/10/2015)

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